On yesterday's dismal, whiny, not-so-nice post about FIL, Teri (aka Writer Girl) suggested a challenge: do two nice things for FIL every week.
gag
choke
grumble
massive (and I do mean MASSIVE)eye-roll here!
But...
She may be on to something.
The situation is hard, heck even the sound of his breathing make me crazy! Yet, I have a choice. I can decide to be a grown-up or I can choose to act like a spoiled brat whose tired of not getting her way.
I told Writer Girl that I was too tired and too crabby to think about this. That I do nice things for him all the time...excuses, excuses, excuses.
For now, I'm going back to bed (I just saw beloved off) and I'll think about this more later. It has value.
Do YOU have any thoughts?
2 comments:
Annie, you're so right. I don't take the time to hand write notes or letters either. I should do better. I even did email Christmas letters this Christmas. However, I justify that by saying I hadn't sent anything the last two years. I made up my mind that this year I was going to at least get out an email message. I hope to follow your lead this year and do a few hand written notes and letters.
Thanks Annie. The support of so many has helped make this trying time more bearable for my entire family.
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